I have failed many times, over and over. But from these failures I've come to accept who I am and act out of that acceptance. I believe in failure because it helps us become better people.
Appreciate how you are feeling during your darkest deepest failure. Consider it a blessing. You need to fail. You need to feel failure. Days of failure are very precious. I call them “learning days”.
I think by now most of us know that those who set New Year’s Resolutions fail at keeping those resolutions. And most of the time they fail pretty quickly, even before the end of January. Don't feel bad...