When I Love as the world saids I should. Love becomes hard,  what makes it hard is all the expections that the world puts on Love.  Love is God's gift and it's free.  Love is looking up to God, knowing he is first and everything else is second.  Love is loving others as God Loves us, unconditional.  Which without God is so hard to do. So many have been hurt and deceived by what they thought Love was, that the thought of loving in such away is scary.  Many go in not trusting and fearful. And in so during Love don't stand a chance.  However if you walk with God hold his hand, let him guild and direct your heart and spirit you will find that God don't make mistakes, we do.