How are we to heal? Let go and trust God by forgiving as much as you want to be forgiven(Luke 6:37) and trusting God that He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds(Psalms 147:3)
Love is the power that can change your whole personality! Instead of letting those hurt feelings arise, love them by saying I forgive them, and forget what is behind and move on to what is ahead, I love my neighbor as I love myself !
Love them by praying for them by saying Father forgive them for they know not what they do, for we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against powers and principalities in high and unseen places!(Ephesians 6:12) Thank you for these people and I ask that you deliver them from the hand of the wicked one! Those that aren't saved I ask they be introduced to Jesus so they may hunger and thirst after righteousness so they can be filled with the fullness of God! In Jesus name,Amen!
There is so much power in love that love covers a multitude of sin!( 1 Peter 4:8)
Perfect love cast out all fear!(1 John 4:18) So love will cast out fear in your personality that will allow you to be free to love others without fear of how you will be treated back thereby allowing you to display a confidence because it comes from whom the son sets free is free indeed! (John 8:36)
Perfect love is freeing love! It frees your personality, frees your ability to receive others just as they are and frees you toward giving and being a blessing to others!