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<channel><title><![CDATA[Blog4Change.org - Comments for article: What Should I Do?]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[http://www.blog4change.org]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>webmaster@blog4change.org</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 22:52:21 UTC</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[What Should I Do?]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2174</link><description><![CDATA[Thank you both, and good luck.  = )<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Kim DuBois at 9:09 pm, Sun 23rd May 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Kim DuBois)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 23 May 2010 21:09:22 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2174</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Should I Do?]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2162</link><description><![CDATA[Thank You Kim I'll try 

Please keep writing<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Emanuel at 10:52 am, Thu 20th May 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Emanuel)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 20 May 2010 10:52:59 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2162</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Should I Do?]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2160</link><description><![CDATA[Spot on Kim!!We all get frustrated at some point of time.But if we think that it is God's will,then the frustration disappears!!<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Santhoshkumar T.S at 7:04 am, Thu 20th May 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Santhoshkumar T.S)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 20 May 2010 07:04:15 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2160</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Should I Do?]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2152</link><description><![CDATA[Hello Emanuel!  I suppose 'doing nothing' really is just the first step.  When I say do nothing, I don't mean pretend it's not there, but rather letting go of the feeling that we must do something quick or things will get worse!

 I think what is so important about it, is that you can finally let go of the worry, stress and anxiety.  You must let go fo those things to bring yourself up out of such a negative place.  Once you're feeling better, (like after you've gone for a walk), and you feel good or peaceful, then it's ok to start thinking about the situation again - but this time you're doing it from a better place.  You might say to yourself, "I want a better relationhip.  I want there to be passion and love.  Is it possible to find that again?"  When you're in this 'good' place, you can make decisions that won't lead to all the guilt and anxiety later.  It helps with the second guessing and fear.

As you walk today, say to yourself, "I don't know what I want to do, but I know I want to feel better"  Then look for things about your life that do feel good.  Focus on the things that make you feel better.  

This is a process, but I know you can do it!

Kim<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Kim DuBois at 12:54 pm, Wed 19th May 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Kim DuBois)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 19 May 2010 12:54:37 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2152</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[What Should I Do?]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2151</link><description><![CDATA[I love this article, what your going through is exactly what I'm going through in my life.  I'm lost at work but I never miss a day.  I'm in a loveless mariage and my kids are the same as yours. I've done what you have suggested and have done nothing about it.  I read, go for long walks rain or shine. It's been 5 months now and things are still the same if not worst, I've been call a bad father and a terrible husband, so I'm not sure it works at least I hasn't for me<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Emanuel at 9:02 am, Wed 19th May 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Emanuel)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 19 May 2010 09:02:59 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/2601/1/What-Should-I-Do/Page1.html#Comment2151</guid></item></channel></rss>