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<channel><title><![CDATA[Blog4Change.org - Comments for article: I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[http://www.blog4change.org]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>webmaster@blog4change.org</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Sat, 25 May 2013 21:03:46 PDT</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment3795</link><description><![CDATA[We are a group of volunteers and strntiag a new scheme in our community. Your website provided us with valuable info to work on. You've done a formidable job and our entire community will be grateful to you.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Mymy at 6:15 pm, Sat 22nd Sep 2012]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Mymy)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 22 Sep 2012 18:15:26 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment3795</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment2741</link><description><![CDATA[Deva,
You sound just like me talking. I can certainly understand your feelings. I have tried to live by the "Golden Rule" all my life and it has only brought me more sorrow than I can handle. It has come to the point where the only person who means anything is him/her self. Because I wanted to do things "right" I lost everything and everbody and never got anything back.
You are young. You can get your life on track before it is too late. You don't have to think only of youself, but you need to do this FIRST. If you don't know what to do, "learn" what to do. With your life in order you will be able to do for others, otherwise you both fail. Go to work on yourself before it is too late. Time can pass you by before you know it.
Good luck to you pal.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by bill at 7:39 pm, Tue 4th Jan 2011]]></description><author>no@spam.com (bill)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 04 Jan 2011 19:39:07 PST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment2741</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment2092</link><description><![CDATA[OOps here i go again~  In a big hurry    **Kick Butt*<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Old Soul at 12:12 pm, Wed 5th May 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Old Soul)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 05 May 2010 12:12:18 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment2092</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment2091</link><description><![CDATA[Dear Diva~    I have heard that *People will do to you what you allow them to*   and also   sometimes   *The better you are to some folks  the worse they treat you ~ Hey Time to *kisk  Butt*   Hon~ Be good to yourself~   and the rest will fall in place  ~ You are a brave little gal  Diva  and dont worry  everything will work out good for you  ~  God Bless You~<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Old Soul at 12:10 pm, Wed 5th May 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Old Soul)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 05 May 2010 12:10:48 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment2091</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment1808</link><description><![CDATA[Please be encoraged.  Don't let anyone make you snap.  Far to often young people change their life and go into a negative direction by making the wrong decesion.  Just take one day at a time.  You're not in this life alone.  God has not forgotten about you.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by New Day at 8:12 am, Fri 2nd Apr 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (New Day)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 02 Apr 2010 08:12:44 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment1808</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment1769</link><description><![CDATA[I have lived my life always trying not to hurt other people. Of course its impossibile. I dont like hurting other people but at times in order not to hurt other people all I do is hurt myself.  Ive stayed in arelationship that I did not want to be in for far to long because i did not want to hurt the othr person. For now on Ive changed my ways I will never set out to deliberatly do anything to hurt someone else but im stopping making myself suffer because I am worried about how the other person will be affected<br/><br/>
Comment posted by suzi at 5:32 am, Sat 27th Mar 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (suzi)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 27 Mar 2010 05:32:10 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment1769</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment1026</link><description><![CDATA[Hi Deva,
You can try to set up some time daily for 'YOU' time. This could be an hour a day where no one is allowed to ask of you, and you are allowed to say 'No' 
I have found that sometimes you have to get away physically before you can relax mentally. Is there somewhere you like to walk or maybe ride a bike? Do you have a hooby that you enjoy? 
*Don't hesitate...take care of yourself now! Try not to overthink how you are going to be thought of negatively if you say 'No' to a task. Besides, there are other ways to respond. You could say something like, "I am not able to help you at the moment, is this something that we can deal with later or another day?" I have learned that people are not as upset with us as we think if we say No. I have a hard time with this myself and usually wind up taking care of too much and start feeling resentful.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Laura at 11:41 am, Thu 10th Dec 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Laura)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 10 Dec 2009 11:41:56 PST]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment1026</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment684</link><description><![CDATA[You really hit the nail on the head here. Take time to take care of yourself, for only then can you take care of others.  Do a favor for yourself TODAY.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by leanne at 6:43 pm, Sun 11th Oct 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (leanne)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 11 Oct 2009 18:43:16 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment684</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment647</link><description><![CDATA[beeeeeee selfish!!!! don't hurt others, but take care of yourself!! thanks so much for sharing!<br/><br/>
Comment posted by tweezy g at 1:37 am, Sat 3rd Oct 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (tweezy g)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 03 Oct 2009 01:37:19 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment647</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment396</link><description><![CDATA[Gosh Deva, we all get tired and frustrated. Hey thats normal. Just take
time to relax and think. Find a quiet and beautful place. Remember 
mother nature heals and asks nothing in return....God Bless...
(And P.S. No need to break down or even think about it, all works out
thats the beauty of life...)<br/><br/>
Comment posted by John Kitsco at 1:13 pm, Sun 19th Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (John Kitsco)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 19 Jul 2009 13:13:24 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment396</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment552</link><description><![CDATA[Hi Deva....... .......it sounds like you have not been given permission to say NO.......or to set boundries........I give you permission .......decide what YOU want to do for YOU to make YOU  happy ........most of society has a hard time knowing what will make them happy........you have your work cut out for you if you are a people pleaser......they will gobble you up and spit you out and not think twice about it ........ your feelings will be hurt and frustration will set in .........do not take anything personally......most people are  projecting there own unhappiness.........(something YOU will not cure) ......change and the world will change with you<br/><br/>
Reply to Previous Comment by BlondeAmbition at 3:50 pm, Thu 10th Sep 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (BlondeAmbition)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 10 Sep 2009 15:50:22 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment552</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment338</link><description><![CDATA[I AM REALLY FEELING YOUR ARTICLE. YOU ARE SPEAKING FROM THE HEART. I FEEL WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM, BECAUSE AT TIMES I FEEL THE SAME WAY.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by DENIQUIA at 7:56 am, Tue 7th Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (DENIQUIA)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 07 Jul 2009 07:56:35 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment338</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment302</link><description><![CDATA[I think its about time for a change.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Deva at 11:36 am, Thu 2nd Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Deva)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 02 Jul 2009 11:36:09 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment302</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment292</link><description><![CDATA[Dont let antone make you feel bad because you didn't help them one time and you have helped them already more times you can count.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by charles jackson at 8:36 am, Thu 2nd Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (charles jackson)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:36:03 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment292</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment287</link><description><![CDATA[Deva i understand where you are coming from these are people you love and they treat you like this but i think the best you do is sit down with these people that are making you tired and say look i have a problem with the way you are doing this when i give you 100% of everything that i do and you are only give me 10%<br/><br/>
Comment posted by korsi at 8:23 am, Thu 2nd Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (korsi)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:23:04 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment287</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment286</link><description><![CDATA[That is very nice<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Katlyn at 8:22 am, Thu 2nd Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Katlyn)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 02 Jul 2009 08:22:21 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment286</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment277</link><description><![CDATA[Deva, 
First, I am glad to see that you are usng the site outside of class.  It is human to desire to please others and wish for them to be fulfilled by your selfless acts; however, it is eaqually important that you take time out for yourself and seek guidance from your Higher power.  One of the most fulfilling things that I do is to give back to others.  Nonetheless, I understand that sometimes I have to take time out for me.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by TD Ellis at 7:24 am, Thu 2nd Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (TD Ellis)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 02 Jul 2009 07:24:28 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment277</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment271</link><description><![CDATA[It's tough finding a way to please the world, almost impossible actually.  We forget to give ourselves permission to say, "no".  Trying to grow up a responsible, caring adult is hard work and you deserve a break today.  Be 16 and play, just for today. Then tomorrow you can please someone else if you want to.  Thank you for sharing with us.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Anita Dpacifichi at 7:52 pm, Wed 1st Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Anita Dpacifichi)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 01 Jul 2009 19:52:06 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment271</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment276</link><description><![CDATA[No, thank you for your advice.<br/><br/>
Reply to Previous Comment by Deva at 10:59 pm, Wed 1st Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Deva)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:59:29 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment276</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment265</link><description><![CDATA[No, not "please let me relax".  Rather, "I am going  to relax!"  It is a subtle difference, but a huge one as well.  If you wait for others to give you permission to relax, to have fun or take care of yourself, you may be waiting a long time.  This is a problem many of us struggle with - feeling we have a right to stand up for ourselves, feeling we deserve something we want.  I believe that until we all begin to treat ourselves the way we need to be treated, (treating ourselves with love, kindness and respect) no one else will either.  You are not loving yourself if you always give in.  You are not respecting yourself if you do something you didn't really want to do.  You are not being kind to yourself if you don't take time to  rest and  relax.  I firmly believe these kinds of issues are not about the people around us, but about ourselves.  How we treat ourselves and what we believe we deserve.  Begin by promising yourself you will start taking better care of yourself, then no matter what comes up, do one thing each day that reflects that choice.  See how good it feels!<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Kim DuBois CHt at 6:10 pm, Wed 1st Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Kim DuBois CHt)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 01 Jul 2009 18:10:26 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment265</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[I'm Tired]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment270</link><description><![CDATA[I am really going to try and do that.<br/><br/>
Reply to Previous Comment by Deva at 7:50 pm, Wed 1st Jul 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Deva)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 01 Jul 2009 19:50:44 PDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/256/1/Im-Tired/Page1.html#Comment270</guid></item></channel></rss>