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<channel><title><![CDATA[Blog4Change.org - Comments for article: Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[http://www.blog4change.org]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>webmaster@blog4change.org</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 00:11:22 UTC</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment4746</link><description><![CDATA[those figures aren't rlelay accurate. I buy a 15kg bag of dry dog food for as little as a39. I don't give my dogs tins as it's expensive, 60% water and rubbish. My dogs also get table scraps.  My cats too get dry food for which I pay a316 per 15kg sack. They get the occasional tin of food. I can feed a massive rottie sized dog for as little as 75p a day. Insurance is a310 a month, flea and worming is around a35 a month. I don't take holidays, the dog bed is a big cardboard box which was free and an old duvet from the charity shop. You don't have to spend a fortune to have a happy healthy dog or cat. People get rid of their pets because they should never have got a pet and not because of the recession.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Sony at 12:45 pm, Sun 18th Oct 2015]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Sony)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 18 Oct 2015 12:45:07 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment4746</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment2743</link><description><![CDATA[Thanks for bringing this important subject up. 
I wrote a poem called "Words that cut deep" which you can read here 

mencanbeabusedtoo dot wordpress dot com/2010/05/18/words-that-cut-deep/<br/><br/>
Comment posted by craig b at 8:48 pm, Tue 4th Jan 2011]]></description><author>no@spam.com (craig b)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 04 Jan 2011 20:48:35 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment2743</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment2533</link><description><![CDATA[Hi Suzanne, thank you for your article. I especially like your approach to write about it to help other people. I sent a text with it about my own story, I hope you don't mind. Love and Light, Ingrid

Healing Journey/Report to Distance Healer/ 1st published Aug5 (just had to get rid of some wrong spellings)
von Ingrid Freitag, Samstag, 14. August 2010 um 15:20

The following is a report I posted on Distance Healer's wall and also on that of Restoring the Sacred Feminine. It is meant to encourage all those who happen to read it to seek healing and help there or wherever they are guided to.

"Welcome back home, DH.  Good to have you back here on FB again. Some weeks ago, I sent you a 'private' message,when feelings of sadness and shame due to experiences of sexual and psychological  abuse in childhood and youth were flushed to the surface again after 25 yearsof not looking at them anymore. Up to the age of 30, I had committed suicide several times, at the age of 19 I was hospitalized for one year in a mental hospital and released AFTER I had jumped down from the second floor with the result of two broken ankles....From then on, I had only one goal: not to be hospitalized again, and I wasn't. At the age of 30 there was a last attempt, I was in coma for 2 days and when I woke up, I somehow managed to behave calmly, so that I was released from hospital. I then withdrew from all people and cried incessantly for about 2 days in my bed, then I got up and decided finally to accept the fact, that I was meant to live on this planet...from that moment on, I consciously followed my path and received lots of spiritual help... Now at the age of 55, you, some mysterious DH, appeared from nowhere, I felt attracted because of the fact that you were offering free healing, so I thought then, not at all thinking of myself being in need of some healing, but being grateful for the love energy you are transmitting, it simply seemed to be a way of helping more people...When I received a personal answer to my message, I felt deeply grateful, I felt truly understood and loved and I had to shed more tears, I felt sorry for myself and after a while even stopped judging myself for that. I had physical symptoms when I wrote to you, my ankles were swollen, deeply red, from some allergic reaction it seemed, and hurt. After each healing session these symptoms were gone, only to appear again within the following day, sometimes my whole body hurt badly in the morning...At the same time I had lots of spiritual guidance in my dreams. Here is just one example: Last Saturday night while sleeping, I saw myself greeting perpetrators, who were standing in a semi-circle around me in some distance, with Namaste and I felt absolutely safe, I understood and felt clearly that I could honour their soul, send them Love and express I AM at the same time...Okay, this is my "coming out" on the wall. It is my heartfelt wish that it may give faith and trust to all fellow human beings who somehow feel that they were so deeply hurt that they could never be whole, holy again. Love and Light to all of you. One more thing: Through DH's loving words in his message to me I came to realize that this unconditional Love is what God has for us, for each one of us, no matter what 'sins' we committed, it needed these words for me to really FEEL it as being the truth in the time after, there had to be this human vehicle DH to cross the bridge from feeling seperate to feeling One...I  understand that this 'coming out' is also part of the healing journey...Namaste

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Comment posted by Ingrid Freitag at 7:52 am, Fri 1st Oct 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Ingrid Freitag)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 01 Oct 2010 07:52:29 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment2533</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment2534</link><description><![CDATA[I dont mind at all, the more the merrier to share experiences and help heal and enjoy our stay on this plant, hoping to spread peace and understanding.<br/><br/>
Reply to Previous Comment by Suzanne at 1:49 pm, Fri 1st Oct 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Suzanne)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 01 Oct 2010 13:49:42 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment2534</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment2438</link><description><![CDATA[Iam<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Liz at 12:26 pm, Fri 27th Aug 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Liz)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 27 Aug 2010 12:26:00 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment2438</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1740</link><description><![CDATA[This is an excellent post! I love reading the latest comments because in turn I tend to read the blog that was commented on, and I'm so glad I did.  

In all fairness, and not to be sexist, but it is a fact that men only use half of their brain, while  women use both sides of their brain.  At least that's what Dr. Amen on PBS television stated in his special about Love.

So in all fairness, it should help woman to go easy on their man when they don't do things the way you think is the logical way to do things, or if they say something off the wall, or not stop for directions.  

How  cruel is it to verbally abuse someone for their genetics.  Think about this the next time your man is getting on your last nerve.  Repeat after me " It's not his fault"  "It's not his fault"  " He can't help it"  and have patience.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Terri at 8:05 am, Tue 23rd Mar 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Terri)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 23 Mar 2010 08:05:46 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1740</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1731</link><description><![CDATA[I perceive that every man and woman deserves an ounce of happiness...and with that goes respect, love, and just too many
good things to list here. It goes back to the marriage vows. Give and
take, forgive and forget. Simply put, a boat rows much better when two people both row in the same direction. Thanks for this item Suzanne.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by John Kitsco at 8:11 pm, Mon 22nd Mar 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (John Kitsco)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 22 Mar 2010 20:11:40 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1731</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1441</link><description><![CDATA[Wow. . .this is such a real life problem, and no one ever talks about it. 
Good for you for bringing it to the forefront.  

Did you ever see that yo plait yogurt commercial, the woman is on the telephone with her friend telling her she had apple pie last night, and key lime pie this morning, chocolate eclair, and whatever else? the husband hearing this, is now searching aimlessly through the refrigerator for the apple pie, and key lime pie,  she stops her phone call, looks at him and says in a demeaning,  tone
" Babe, what are you doing?!!" the man's face drops like a scared little boy caught with his hands in the cookie jar. 
I think the commercial is distasteful.  Recently I saw the same commercial and it was done differently, I guess I wasn't the only one that felt it was degrading to men.  Orrrrrrr. . . maybe they read  your blog Suzanne lol.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Mary Benedet at 8:35 am, Fri 5th Feb 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Mary Benedet)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 05 Feb 2010 08:35:15 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1441</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1404</link><description><![CDATA[Suzanne: Your right. Men can be abused, especially verbally by their wives. It's very wrong and I feel sorry for them but they do need to learn to stand up for themselves. My sister is a verbal abuser to her husband and son. I think it's terribly wrong. Good blog, thx.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Laurie Hunter at 6:00 pm, Wed 3rd Feb 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Laurie Hunter)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 03 Feb 2010 18:00:12 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1404</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1778</link><description><![CDATA[Laurie , i agree with but , your going to see more men in that position because of the family court laws ! I advise anyone and everyone to read articles posted on Fathers & Families.com We need to revise some of the barbarric laws that have neen passed pertaining to family court . Its not a one side deal either , it works both ways . Take a look , your eyes will well up with amazement of how the law is making it worse ! The children suffer the most !<br/><br/>
Reply to Previous Comment by Phil Salamone at 6:40 am, Mon 29th Mar 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Phil Salamone)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 29 Mar 2010 06:40:50 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1778</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1378</link><description><![CDATA[Great post, I'm sure you are reaching many people. Suzanne I've been following your blogs, and all I can say is  don't stop blogging, you know better than anyone that there are people out there, hurting, silent, and scared, and if you could reach even one, and give them hope your job is done.  God Bless You !<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Betty at 9:29 am, Sat 30th Jan 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Betty)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 30 Jan 2010 09:29:26 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1378</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1373</link><description><![CDATA[Thank you Maurius. I felt this article coming on, and as a result, more people are coming to me. My voice will get louder thru my pen, and I will continue to work to promote peace and unity.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Suzanne Perry at 9:38 pm, Wed 27th Jan 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Suzanne Perry)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 27 Jan 2010 21:38:59 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1373</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hurt at home. Why? A must-read for men.]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1372</link><description><![CDATA[I' m not that old, but however I believe we all know about the pass.
This is touch hearts<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Maurius Mireus at 9:24 pm, Wed 27th Jan 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Maurius Mireus)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 27 Jan 2010 21:24:41 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1717/1/Hurt-at-home-Why-A-must-read-for-men/Page1.html#Comment1372</guid></item></channel></rss>