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<channel><title><![CDATA[Blog4Change.org - Comments for article: Thoughts in the quiet moments]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[http://www.blog4change.org]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>webmaster@blog4change.org</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Sat, 13 Jun 2026 14:54:11 UTC</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Thoughts in the quiet moments]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1719</link><description><![CDATA[Thank you, Nancy.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Karen at 6:29 am, Mon 22nd Mar 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Karen)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 22 Mar 2010 06:29:12 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1719</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thoughts in the quiet moments]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1686</link><description><![CDATA[What an excellent post! 

I can relate to a lot of what you are saying, I too have a hard working man, honest, trustworthy, he has had his own business for years with his Dad, they never advertised their business in 30 years, just word of mouth, they worked hard, did a good job, and charged a fair wage.

In a few months we'll be married 29 years. I agree with you, there were rough years when work was scarce, not sure where we were going to get our next dollar.  The years when we were both growing up with different thoughts and ideas, so many things in life can put a strain on your marriage.  

You have days when you think you don't love each other anymore, but it's the situation you don't love, it's the strain of life you don't love, not your spouse.

You eventually realize this after you get through it, when situations change, unfortunately many divorce before they even reach that point. The storms, are what make your marriage stronger. 

There are many days when it's not 50/50, some days it's 70/30 one day you give more, and likewise.  Treat each other with love and respect, work through the rough roads, because growing old together, there is nothing like it.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Nancy at 7:41 pm, Wed 17th Mar 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Nancy)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:41:18 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1686</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thoughts in the quiet moments]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1685</link><description><![CDATA[Quite well said.  Never take each other for granted...there is a reward for your work...and his!<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Lynda Gee at 6:36 pm, Wed 17th Mar 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Lynda Gee)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Wed, 17 Mar 2010 18:36:42 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1685</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thoughts in the quiet moments]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1830</link><description><![CDATA[Amen!<br/><br/>
Reply to Previous Comment by Karen at 7:08 pm, Sun 4th Apr 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Karen)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sun, 04 Apr 2010 19:08:46 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1830</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thoughts in the quiet moments]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1267</link><description><![CDATA[Vey true !!!<br/><br/>
Comment posted by Lala at 1:15 pm, Fri 8th Jan 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Lala)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 08 Jan 2010 13:15:37 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/1464/1/Thoughts-in-the-quiet-moments/Page1.html#Comment1267</guid></item></channel></rss>