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<channel><title><![CDATA[Blog4Change.org - Comments for article: Finding Strength; A journey to the light 4]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[http://www.blog4change.org]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>webmaster@blog4change.org</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2026 00:11:00 UTC</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Finding Strength; A journey to the light 4]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/106/1/Finding-Strength-A-journey-to-the-light-4/Page1.html#Comment1426</link><description><![CDATA[YES,it all feels so familiar,my parents divorced to after raising us to believe the same and my father is an evangalist (preaching and singing all over the countryside)and yes it was somewhat 30 yrs. ago but the pain itself i dnt think ever leaves or gets any less, but we cant change people only god can but what we can do with others is learn from their experiences and/or mistakes and change our lives.i am a christian and the Lords words hold true very strongly in our home and as we raise our children we can only teach them Gods word and try hard to livr by it but also teach them and others that we are human and we are going to make mistakes in life so we have to also teach forgiveness as we go and sometimes use 1 of our mistakes for an example if need be.   we as in i had to learn to forgive because after all the yrs. of medicating myself and making drs. rich(not knocking any1 for needing a dr. at all) i had to,i needed to, and it had become a must to forgive my dad for the divorce b/c it had made my life a pure living turmoil,i became very bitter toward everybody not that i wanted to be but once i forgave(and it was really silly how my pastor told me to do it if i just couldnt face doing it in front of my dad) it truely made a difference in my life in every area too,people that got to where they wouldnt come around me,went to my adult sons and ask what had happen to me that i had changed so much but forgiveness made all the difference for me,maybe it is  something to look into,altho im just on your 4th story and sounds like your doing good.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by ANITA at 5:18 pm, Thu 4th Feb 2010]]></description><author>no@spam.com (ANITA)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 04 Feb 2010 17:18:59 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/106/1/Finding-Strength-A-journey-to-the-light-4/Page1.html#Comment1426</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Finding Strength; A journey to the light 4]]></title><link>http://www.blog4change.org/articles/106/1/Finding-Strength-A-journey-to-the-light-4/Page1.html#Comment592</link><description><![CDATA[Meds can definitely be the cause for concern and obviously you were
familiar with what was happening. That is good.  Now, the lows are
a good excuse to climb to the highs. Something good is around the
corner. a new sunrise, the smile of a friend. We cannot change people
but then again, maybe we can...by working to change ourselves. Best
to you.<br/><br/>
Comment posted by John Kitsco at 10:21 pm, Sat 19th Sep 2009]]></description><author>no@spam.com (John Kitsco)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Sat, 19 Sep 2009 22:21:22 UTC]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.blog4change.org/articles/106/1/Finding-Strength-A-journey-to-the-light-4/Page1.html#Comment592</guid></item></channel></rss>